Chinese Etiquette: 10 Rules Every Visitor Should Know
Chinese social etiquette is different from Western norms. Breaking these rules won’t get you in trouble — Chinese people don’t expect foreigners to know everything — but following them will earn genuine appreciation.
1. Use two hands to give and receive. Business cards, gifts, money — use both hands. It shows respect. 2. Don’t tip. Tipping is not customary and can be awkward. The service charge is included. 3. Let the host seat you. Wait to be shown your seat at a meal. The seat facing the door is the seat of honor. 4. Don’t start eating until the host starts. At banquets, the host gives a short speech and lifts their glass before anyone eats. 5. Don’t stick chopsticks upright in rice. It resembles incense sticks at funerals.
6. Remove your shoes when entering someone’s home. Slippers are provided. 7. Don’t point. Use an open hand to gesture. 8. Compliment sparingly. Chinese culture practices modesty — if you compliment something, the owner may feel obligated to give it to you. 9. Don’t hug or kiss as greetings. A nod or handshake is appropriate. 10. Save face for others. Never criticize someone publicly. Deliver feedback privately, gently, and indirectly.